This was not meant to be posted for the public, but I could find no other way to communicate with the website and it’s hosts. It is fine if it is public, though I would prefer it be used for it’s intended purpose.. t talk to the hosts.
I was looking to collaborate on a topic that affects your primary demographic, that needs more current discussion (as the past in filled with bad science and research), and affects every aspect of those who are impacted by it… that of course being “Infantalism – or more accurately what I call the “Infantalistic Spectrum”.
While I do know there is little data to suggest how many people will be drawn towards this lifestyle, many commonly start down that path anywhere from 4 to 16; with others discovering it later. Because of the poor research that has been done in the past, it is generally assumed that the behavior is sexually deviant in nature, when in truth the majority of people have little or no sexual connection to their varied activities. In truth, the only way to legitimately understand this complex topic is to realize there is a wide spectrum of behaviors… with many people overlapping their varied tendencies and thus can not be placed “in the same box”… when in fact they are exhibiting two different behaviors (or more) that need to identified separately.
The point I want most to make is that it is important to get this information in front of people in your key demographic. We need to eliminate many of the misconceptions that exist because some of them are so harmful that they can actually scar the psyche of those who are new to the world. Those who discover their connection to Infantilism need to know it is okay, and is in no way a negative thing… right now those who first “come out” are often exposed to the ideology that Infantilism is “unacceptable”, “dirty”, “deviant”, and “disgusting” – as is easily seen from each of the previous times the topic was talked about. The tern “Paraphilic Infantilism” is often used as the general definition of this behaviour – however, as the research says; this only applies to the “4” people who the very unscientific research was based upon… and thus was used to justify the behaviors of ALL others who happen to share one trait – the desire to wear diapers.
I am in the process of developing the website www.infantilism.info in order to help elliminate the very harmful misconceptions that exist and to better help those who identify with this lifestyle (and their parents, caregivers, and partners) to have all the info the need to make informed choices about the lifestyle. Something that sadly does not exist currently.
For the more current understanding of this topic, please visit: http://psychology.wikia.com/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism There are many things which need to be updated, however, the definition is non-harmful and gives people new to the lifestyle enough into to know that what they are experiencing is not simple, but also not “dirty”. Which sadly, only now is coming to light.
I should mention that I myself have over 20 years of experience with this lifestyle, am an actual certified Genius (so I can see things others miss), and have spent a great deal of my time in this world talking to and learning from others in it. I myself began to identify with diapers when I was 4 or 5 years old.
This really is an important topic as there are many people currently under 35 who came to our world at a time when the worst, hateful definitions that used to be the norm were everywhere. Many were subjected to pedophiles in the various chatrooms as there was a total lack of moderation or concern for others. As a result, many of these people have been damaged by these past situations. Something that will only stop when society as a whole gets the message that who we are and what we are into isn’t deviant, disgusting, or harmful. You could be on the forefront of that… or at least be the primary source for “commentary” on new research results, new discoveries, and new concepts which come as a result of new research – which I can totally help with.
PS: This is important to me, if you need me to do something to make it happen (like interview me to talk about my past) I will happily do it. What matters most is to get rid of the social stigma and “deviant” label currently applied to diapers, etc.